I marry a Chinese girl. Always like China , I learned Chinese most American men do not bother 12 years I still have a weekly class. I like the culture, been there many times. She was the best thing I did. She is my3rd wife, first not count we were kids. #2 had 4 children with, but she left after 20 years so I ran the business and raised them all. The little girls thought this ...Chinese girl would be their Mom. She seldom talk to them. She would not even come downstairs, f they were here. after ten years she turned into a MONSTER! My life is in Mayhem now. And I did everything for her . Sex stopped 7 years ago, after green card. We are both Christians, but she chose $$$ instead of me and God.